Abuse

Abuse can come in many forms and at many different times in a person's life. NLP uses models that allow you to separate from your abuse and place it in a place that will leave you to be free.

Now, if you are ready to turn around and move forward with your life, then like so many others that have done this work, you can be free. Free and safe from that abuse.

Addictions

One can be addicted to a lot of different things and addiction can take away ones choice in life. Whether your addiction stems from the past, the present, or an apparently absent future I know that as you read this, right now, you might not have a way to separate yourself from all of those addictive thoughts.

But life is also filled with choice and freedom. And even if, right now, you can't clearly remember and get a sense of what its like to fully experience choice and freedom, the beauty is that fully experiencing choice and freedom again can completely allow one to rise all the way up above addiction.

There are literally billions and billions of this way or that way, clean and sober or straight and narrow days from which to draw inspiration.

Would you like to take the first step?

Allergies

What is an allergy? A short answer is that an allergy is an overreaction on the part of the immune system. Often, allergic responses can be eliminated quickly using a powerful technique called the NLP Allergy Relief Process.

The NLP Allergy Relief Process retrains the neurology to understand that the allergen is not a pathogen. It is simply a substance that the immune system can now recognize as non-harmful and consequently, react to it in a healthy, clear manner

Sometimes the term allergic is used more casually and a person is sensitive to a particular substance, rather than experiencing a histamine reaction. In these cases the good news is that you can still often get the relief you need. Do you need relief?

Anger Management

If you've got just some anxiety or worry it can sometimes seem like it's taking over. But what happens when you just clear your mind now and consider not anxiety, or not worry? What's that like? Not anxiety? What is not worry?

NLP offers a variety of choices to access the kind of feelings you want instead. And what can you have instead? Think calm, confidence, clarity, assuredness, or some of the other resourceful states. Where worry or anxiety used to be, you can have what you want instead. It happens.

Neutralising root causes and conditioning neuro-drivers which are directly hardwired to the nervous system can be utilised to achieve relaxed, flowing alertness.

Anxiety/Worry

If you've got just some anxiety or worry it can sometimes seem like it's taking over. But what happens when you just clear your mind now and consider not anxiety, or not worry? What's that like? Not anxiety? What is not worry?

NLP offers a variety of choices to access the kind of feelings you want instead. And what can you have instead? Think calm, confidence, clarity, assuredness, or some of the other resourceful states. Where worry or anxiety used to be, you can have what you want instead. It happens.

Neutralising root causes and conditioning neuro-drivers which are directly hardwired to the nervous system can be utilised to achieve relaxed, flowing alertness.

Behaviours

NLP uses a model of communication to understand how and why one behaves as they do. If you are behaving in a way that you no longer want then we can identify what is in place that is driving this behaviour, consciously or unconsciously.

If you can identify what you no longer want to do, then I can help you behave in a way that you choose.

Business

Many organizations around the world have used the technologies of Life Coaching to assist them to achieve their business objectives. Those projects range from the coaching of individual executives for improved performance and communication to customer service initiatives involving every employee in the company. Life Coaching is useful in any situation in which two or more people must communicate in order to produce results.

Just some of the companies and organizations that have used Life Coaching include: The U.S, Government, the CIA, Diner's Club, American Express, Fiat, BMW, Weight Watchers International, Northwest Airlines, HP, and the U.S. Olympic diving team.

Careers

Some people are trying to choose a career and some are trying to decide if the one they are in is working. With the aid of direction models, NLP can help with decisions, motivation and accomplishment in the context of ones' career.

NLP has the ability to elicit what is important to you in your career and what internal or external conflicts might be standing in the way of realising this.

With these insights and understandings at our disposal we can then do what is necessary to establish a congruent, motivated, working direction ahead.

Confidence

Not feeling very confident? NLP has the ability to help you take a step back and contextualize.

Because I know that you're pretty confident that you know how to tie your shoelaces, right? Confidence is a state and it is possible to access any state at any time; you might not be feeling totally confident right now but it possible for one to feel confident at any time.

This means that we can disover exactly when and where and in what sort of situations we can focus the unconscious mind towards accessing the state of confidence for you. When and where you decide you want to feel confident.

This way, feeling confident can blossom into confident thoughts, confident behaviors and confident capabilities. NLP helps make this automatic.

Are you confident about wanting confidence?

Depression

I know I've been depressed... 'Life' can even get to a place where it seems so abstract that it has nothing to do with the unhappiness inside. So what can be done about it?

Well, the truth is that there are millions and millions and millions of people out there that have come out smiling at the day's dawning. Truly, and I know one can even add genuinely, come out smiling at the day's dawning. If you're reading this then I bet there's at least one drop of dawning in you, no matter how small.

Do you at least have just one little drop of if it were possible?

Coping and Dealing with Divorce

You know that you have to accept and move on, but it's not as simple as that is it? What used to be dreams, love and times of genuine joy, could now be hurt, fear, anger, loneliness or finality. The separation and division of children, finances, friends, families and homes can leave one feeling shattered, overwhelmed, hopeless and disempowered.

So, how does one puzzle the pieces together, into a picture that makes your life whole again?

By taking advantage of structured guidance, you will have the opportunity to feel both of your feet again, standing firmly on the ground. In addition to getting things off your chest, you will have the chance to experience a technique which allows for the healing of time, but without the wait.

I see the ‘you’ who has found yourself again. A new version of you, with all the inner-peace, strength, confidence, success, laughter, smiling and happiness you long for. This process is empathetic, empowering and can offer you the chance to feel alive, full of hope and in love with life again. It is taken at your pace but can move as quickly as you want it to happen.

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Education

Education can brighten and pave the way to your future, no matter what your age. While intelligence is often measured through pass and fail, I know that everyone is good at learning something. And therein lies the key.

NLP makes use of both external and internal strategies to determine the differences between successful learning and areas to which those strategies can be applied. People are not bad learners; people learn to learn in ways that don't end in successful results.

If you or a loved one is struggling to achieve the results you want in education please contact me and lets access your full ability to learn.

Emotions

Some people are really good at feeling them and some people are not really in touch with them. Either way, most people know the difference between when they're feeling good and when they're not feeling very good.

NLP offers a way to take an inventory of ones emotions, and clear out what's not needed or wanted. It is then possible to create a way forward to a place where your emotions can contribute to your happiness.

Finance

Have you ever heard someone saying something like "I want more money?" Well an interesting insight is that the unconscious mind, which drives a lot of one's behaviours and abilities, would feel it had accomplished this for you if it were to get you just one more Rand. And it makes sense, doesn't it?

NLP offers methods of reviewing and installing the sorts of unconscious guidance that blesses the rich.

Sometimes one can have a struggle between financial success and freedom. The good news is that these two directions can be aligned so that you can be free to achieve your wealth.

Future

What is it that you want from living your life? What is first prize?

Creating a future outcome, the you of the future is just the beginning. We then communicate this to your unconscious mind so that you can be supported in considering and collaborating for its rewarding realisation.

Maybe you can be anyone, or anywhere or anything you want!

Motivation

Feeling stuck or unmotivated is something that many people experience at some time or in some part of their lives. Since it is such a universal experience, ways have been found to get things moving.

Getting the kind of movement you desire into action really can be done and done faster than you might imagine. Sometimes past failures or hesitations are influencing the present and keeping things still. There are specific techniques to shift these behaviours and attain motivation.

Motivation is on the go to anyone who wants it!

Panic / Anxiety Attacks

Panic and anxiety attacks are emotionally, mentally and physically overwhelming. They take away ones sense of personal control, stability or sanity and can very quickly explode into all areas of ones life. For many, fear of the fear becomes an ever present companion.

When I first came across the techniques which have saved thousands and thousands of people from the viscous cycles they were stuck in, I felt so lucky and couldn’t believe I hadn’t come across the information earlier. It’s sometimes not easy to recall the sense of safety, peace and confidence but these feelings very quickly return when one takes benefit from tried and tested, guided consultation.

People use are all sorts of words for it: Program, cure, relief, course, treatment, stop, end, sort-out, help, self-help, medication, how to, remedy, medicine, treat, drug, what to do, eradicate therapy, resolve, assistance, guidance, counselling etc.

No matter what you call it it’s about being able to end what’s been happening. It's about being in a whole new place where you are in total control and experiencing life the way you want to.

Past

There is birth and there is living. And along the way a lot of different things have happened. Some of them were probably good and some of them might have affected you in ways you no longer want or need.

Letting go of the past and its influence on your present situation is totally possible. Whether you are aware of the exact details or not, NLP has structured models of change that can allow you to fully receive your present.

Phobias

Another of NLP's prized accomplishments - researched, tried and tested. People can literally go from paralysis to physical contact with their phobia of the past in as little as one session.

You don't necessarily need to like what once overwhelmed you but you certainly have the choice to be free from its grasp.

Self-esteem

Not feeling very good about yourself? Well if thats true, and if you would, consider for a moment what happens when you start feeling not, not very good about yourself? What's that like? Feeling not, not very good about yourself...

First we will find out how this is happening and work through it. Then we will take a look at the power of identity distinctions so that you can drop the nots and just start feeling very good about yourself.

Sex

They say that sex is what makes the world go around. But maybe what goes up just goes down? Or perhaps, for whatever reason, things have dried up?

Sexual concerns can cause thoughts and feelings of inadequecy which can perpetuate the situation. The bad news is that you are doing a thought process which results in sex concerns. The good news is that you can have a thought process which results in sexual comfort and performance that smiles.

Can you remember a time when things were strong, flowing or vibrant? Even if you can not, but you can imagine what that must be like, then there are ways to get your vibrancy flowing. All night long, or just how you want it and like it.

Sexuality

Lesbian? Straight? Gay? Something else?

Excellent, because what else are you? And even beyond that, what more are you than that? In my eyes, first and foremost, you are a living, breathing human being, capable of all the wonders of life.

No matter what you are, I know that you can be everything that you are.

Smoking

I have never met someone who smokes and would recommend it to a loved one. Maybe you've quit before, maybe you haven't and maybe it's just on your mind. But if you take a look towards your past, I know that there was a time in your life that you can see yourself when you were a non-smoker, right?

And if you'll remember back to that time you can probably get a sense for how it was to breathe freely - exclusively air! Your thoughts and actions were free! Your body was free! You tasted and smelled and received life clearly!

So even if you smoke now, you can be free to breathe clearly again - exclusively air!

Sports/Golf

NLP has been successful in helping athletes shape their performance in achieving gold in all professional and international sports tournaments. In fact it is hard to find a top sports psychologist or coach who is not using elements of NLP these days.

The principles can be universally applied to anywhere in the sporting world and can be successfully applied to whatever your personal goals are. If it's what the winners are using, you might be the next winner!

Stress

This is an interesting one because it can be found in so many circumstances and sometimes stress can assist in getting things done. However when stress reaches levels that are negatively affecting your life, your personality, your relationships, or your body, it's time to stop.

Solutions and strengths within your environment, behaviours, capabilities, beliefs, values, identity, goals, missions or relationships can turn you from stress to strength.

Trauma

Accidents, robberies, violation and the list goes... Events like these can stick with you and hold you in their grasp. And what can turn the key for you now is dissociation. That means getting far away from it and to a place where you can see it over there in the distance, small and dark in black and white. And with new colour the healing can begin now.

Because right now you are no longer in that situation, right? Right now as you're reading this you are safe and you are alive, right? Yes, you have survived and I know that you can separate from that incident to a future where you can be free and safe and happy again.

Trauma

Accidents, robberies, violation and the list goes... Events like these can stick with you and hold you in their grasp. And what can turn the key for you now is dissociation. That means getting far away from it and to a place where you can see it over there in the distance, small and dark in black and white. And with new colour the healing can begin now.

Because right now you are no longer in that situation, right? Right now as you're reading this you are safe and you are alive, right? Yes, you have survived and I know that you can separate from that incident to a future where you can be free and safe and happy again.

Weight

Maybe you eat too much, maybe you don't eat enough and maybe you've got your own unique issue with food and eating. But just for now, if you would, please take a moment, stop and clear your mind.

You see an ideal body weight, is what people are after. An NLP practitioner set up Weight Watchers International's mental and emotional program, so if it's worked for millions, it can now become a reality for your weight too. Hop onto the train of transformation and you might even be able to see your body transforming right before your eyes.

You don't have to wait anymore.